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Shanel Cooper-Sykes, author of “Stilettos In The Kitchen,” talks about the difference between sex and love, how to get a man to love you and explains why men cheat. Peep the video! Any thoughts?
1/27/13 UPDATE: We received an email from someone informing us of Shanel Cooper Sykes’s business practices.
According to the email, Shanel has been accused by many women of things such as unreceived orders, poor customer service and unethical business practices.
If you want to read more in detail about these allegations, check out these links below:
I think this is right on point. I know that the way I have treated women has alot to do with my mother and step mother. She made a solid argument with alot of validity throughout.
The only thing I agree with, and it is VERY credible and evident is the thought on having sex too fast. Not having sex for awhile gives women a chance to see if this is really the man that she wants to date/love/marry…, and it gives men a chance to grow to have some other connection than a sexual one.
I agree with the previous comments. Attempting to provide an explanation (excuse) for men cheat is lame, and attempting to rationalize it with those ridiculous anecdotes did not help either. It’s a choice.
Fidelity is a choice and has nothing to do with anyone else besides the person who is choosing to be unfaithful. If you’re unhappy, leave. If you don’t like what’s going on, communicate that and work towards making it better. Women get tired of sex from the same man just like men can get tired of the same woman. But, life is about choices. Control your nature, don’t let your nature control you. It’s not natural to wear a condom, but not wearing one can cost you your life. Fidelity is a CHOICE.
My first issue with this is: a mother’s loves her son but doesn’t teach him how to love her back? So the same woman wouldn’t be loving and raising her daughter the same way as the son? So mother’s teach their daughters how to love them back? To love men back?
Umm, she found an angle and ran with it.