Google+

Kevin Hart Proposes To Girlfriend Eniko Parrish During Her 30th Birthday Party. [Video]

Kevin Hart Proposes To Girlfriend Eniko Parrish During Her 30th Birthday Party. [Video] Kevin Hart Proposes To Girlfriend Eniko Parrish During Her 30th Birthday Party. [Video]

Seyi Ajirotutu’s Wife Autumn Pierce Ajirotutu

Seyi Ajirotutu’s Wife Autumn Pierce Ajirotutu Seyi Ajirotutu’s Wife Autumn Pierce Ajirotutu

Congratulations: Tony Parker Marries His Fiancée Axelle Francine After Signing 43 Million Contract Extension! [Details]

Congratulations: Tony Parker Marries His Fiancée Axelle Francine After Signing 43 Million Contract Extension! [Details] Congratulations: Tony Parker Marries His Fiancée Axelle Francine After Signing 43 Million Contract Extension! [Details]

Keyshawn Johnson And Fiance Jennifer Conrad Sent Out iPad 4s To Guests As Wedding Invitations! [Photos]

Keyshawn Johnson And Fiance Jennifer Conrad Sent Out iPad 4s To Guests As Wedding Invitations! [Photos] Keyshawn Johnson And Fiance Jennifer Conrad Sent Out iPad 4s To Guests As Wedding Invitations! [Photos]

Chris Bosh’s Wife Adrienne Dishes On How They First Met And What It’s Like Being A Real ‘Basketball Wife!’ [Video]

Chris Bosh’s Wife Adrienne Dishes On How They First Met And What It’s Like Being A Real ‘Basketball Wife!’ [Video] Chris Bosh's Wife Adrienne Dishes On How They First Met And What It's Like Being A Real 'Basketball Wife!' [Video]

Watch: Victor Cruz Proposes To His Long Time Girlfriend Elaina Wately [Video]

Watch: Victor Cruz Proposes To His Long Time Girlfriend Elaina Wately [Video] Watch: Victor Cruz Proposes To His Long Time Girlfriend Elaina Wately [Video]

RECENT POST

gabrielle-union-and-dwyane-wade-married-wedding-gown-miami-photos
Congratulations: Gabrielle Union And Dwyane Wade Officially Tied The Knot In Miami! (Photos)
Essence Atkins: ‘My Husband And I Are Officiating Gabrielle Union And Dwyane Wade’s Wedding!’ [Video]
taraji-henson-new-movie-no-good-deed
Taraji P. Henson Talks Co-Starrring With Idris Elba In New Film ‘No Good Deed!’ [Video]
tyrese-gibson-daughter-shay-jesse-j-video
Ahhh How Cute: Tyrese Gibson’s Daughter Shay Meets Her Favorite Singer Jesse J! [Video]
j-sun-singer-jesse_powell
This Is For The Ladies: J’SUN Sings “YOU” By Jesse Powell. [Video]
kimberlyelise-vegan-peta
Kimberly Elise Shows Off Her Toned Body And Talks Being A Vegan For 15 Years. [Video]
tamron-hall-makeup-tips
Tamron Hall Shares 5 Makeup Tips For An Glamorous Look! [Video]
savannah-james-baby-shower
LeBron And Savannah James Celebrate Their Daughter Zhuri’s Upcoming Arrival With A BABY Shower In Akron,Ohio! [Photos]
wendy-williams-vegas-comic
Wendy Williams Heading Back to Vegas!!!!
trina-towanda-braxton-wendy_williams
Trina And Towanda Braxton Talks About Braxton Family Values.
shantel-jackson-nelly-dating-relationship
Shantel Jackson Opens Up About Her Relationship With Nelly! [Video]
nick-cannon-mariah-carey-split
Nick Cannon Confirms Separation From Wife Mariah Carey! [Video]
tamron-hall-cries-domestic-violence
Tamron Hall Gets Emotional While Talking About Losing Her Sister To Domestic Violence!
darryl-strawberry-wife-tracy-strawberry-pics
Darryl And Tracy Strawberry Talk New Book ‘The Imperfect Marriage!’ [Video]
Scary Moment: Teens Break In NBA Star Ray Allen’s Miami Mansion While His Wife And Kids Were Sleeping! [Video]
lance-gross-fiance-rebecca-jefferson-pic-1
Lance Gross Opens Up About Engagement To Fiance Rebecca Jefferson And Their Unborn Baby On The Way! [Video]
Kevin-Hart-and-Eniko-Parrish-Proposal-engaged1
Kevin Hart Proposes To Girlfriend Eniko Parrish During Her 30th Birthday Party. [Video]
ciara-fiance-future-break-up
Did Ciara And Future Really Break Up Over Him Cheating? [Video]
tameka_Raymond_and_Christina_Johnson-hollywood-exes
Tameka Raymond and Christina Johnson Talk Starring In New Reality Show ‘Atlanta Exes.’
Garcelle_Beauvais_Talks_About_2nd_Children's_Book
Garcelle Beauvais Talks Writing Her Second Children’s Boot Titled ‘ “I Am Living In 2 Homes.” [Video]

Jada-Pinkett-relationship-advice

In a recent Facebook post to her followers, Jada Pinkett Smith weighed in on the on the topic cheating.

Jada writes:

Should I stay with a mate after she or he has cheated on me?

(This is not referring to habitual cheaters. That is a different matter.)

This is a very personal choice, and there is no right or wrong answer. If your partner is remorseful and is willing to work it out, I would suggest trying to look at it from this vantage point. My observation has been that when most people cheat, they are trying to solve a problem. They are usually in some kind of emotional trouble or confusion that they believed the cheating would relieve. What’s interesting is that most of the time the cheating has nothing to do with YOU.

Now the question becomes, are you willing to put all ego aside and reach for some deep compassion to try to figure out what the trouble is, and, as partners, try to solve it? Know this, if someone has cheated on you who truly loves you, they have hurt themselves as much as they have hurt you.

This makes for a great opportunity to deepen the relationship with thorough honesty, which creates deeper respect with some serious setting of boundaries. This is also when love gets real and true and illuminates what you are made of as a couple and as individuals. Situations like these could be the windows to a deeper commitment OR… to two separate paths on the way to look for new partners. Only the unique nature of your specific relationship can be the telling factor. Is he or she worth it?

J

ANY THOUGTS? LEAVE A COMMENT BELOW!

Press (Ctrl+ D) To Save To Favorites!

Leave a Reply

Custom Search
PICK A WIFE